having babies

as today's theme is going to be parenting- apparently, there is a system to having babies. i wouldn't know as i haven't and don't plan to. i guess it makes sense though. with more women waiting to have babies, i guess you need a plan. apparently, pregnancy has become more glamorous, too. brings me back to my original observation in a different rant- people don't have babies to teach them and to recognize that they are people. they look at them as accessories to the lives that they have created out there. babies grow up and i fear that many people don't look that far ahead when they decide that they 'want' a baby to complete their lives. just because you can procreate doesn't mean that you should and unfortunatly, it is usually the stupid, shortsighted people on this planet that breed.