"when you look at relationships that make it, the people are good friends and treat each other with respect; they have shared values and they trust one another. trust is the foundation- without it, you don't feel safe. if you don't feel safe, you can't be vulnerable. if you are not vulnerable, you can't be intimate."
connie barbacki
Tuesday, May 30, 2006
thought for tuesday
in the spirit of the conversation over at glenda's blog- here goes:
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I've been married almost 21 years and I trust my husband. If I didn't we wouldn't have survived. We argue state our opinions which is also what keeps us together.
I've been married to my best friend for almost 20 years. He was my best friend long before I became his wife. We can still make one another laugh a lot. He's still the person I want to spend as many minutes with as possible. We don't argue, we discuss. That works better for us. I trust him with my life and have for almost 30 years. Yep, we lived in sin a long time and decided it was so much fun that we made ourselves legal. :)
We're having fun with life.
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