my buddy- who's an expert in things evangelical- emailed me this site. he warned me that these folks can twist and turn and justify anything- and he was right. this particular passage made me laugh out loud and the whole article is amusing. please, feel free to browse and learn at
"Second, for a young woman who has never engaged in sexual intercourse, having anal sex allows her to preserve her virginity (i.e., maintain an intact hymen) until marriage. There is no greater gift that a bride can give than to offer her pure, unsullied maidenhead to her husband on their wedding night."